Emotional wellbeing for children, schools and families

The aim is not to punish them. It is to help them to learn.

When a child struggles in school, their behaviour is telling you something. EMspace helps schools and families look beneath the surface, and do something about what they find there.

  • CASEL SEL framework
  • 25+ years experience
  • Families First aligned
  • Early Help
  • SEMH & SEL

EMspace has relocated to the East Midlands and is now taking referrals from schools in the region. Not sure whether we cover your area? Get in touch.

What EMspace offers

Four ways to support children and young people

From one-to-one mentoring through to digital tools and practitioner resources, EMspace works at every level of the support continuum.

One-to-one mentoring

EMspace Mentoring

Direct 1:1 mentoring support for children and young people whose emotional and behavioural needs are affecting their school experience. Grounded in The Journey framework, working with the child, their school and their family.

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Practitioner resources

The EMspace Resource Bank

A growing bank of SEMH and SEL resources for Learning Mentors, SENCOs, Teaching Assistants, Pastoral Leads and behaviour mentors. Structured around The Journey framework, with Explorer (free) and Investor access tiers.

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Digital tool

The EMotions Diary

A digital tool that gives children a structured, safe way to express what is driving their behaviour, before it escalates. Used proactively across a class or year group, or with individual children where concerns have been raised.

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Intervention framework

The Journey App

A structured but flexible intervention framework for children who need more targeted support. Working across seven stages from introducing the worker through to ending well, keeping the child, school and family connected throughout.

  1. Introducing
  2. Brainstorming
  3. Team forming
  4. Calming
  5. Improving
  6. Celebrating
  7. Ending well

The EMspace Resource Bank

Built by practitioners, for practitioners

The Resource Bank brings together SEMH and SEL tools that school-based professionals can use directly with children and young people. No clinical background needed, no jargon. Just practical, relationship-first resources grounded in 25 years of direct practice.

Explorer access
Free

A taster of the bank: interactive activities, staff tools and SEL resources. Start exploring today.

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Investor access
£149 per year, per school

Unlocks the full library.

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Why this matters

Behaviour policies alone cannot break this cycle

Across schools we see the same pattern. A child struggles. The behaviour policy is applied. There may be a brief improvement, then the same child, the same issues, the same escalation. The cycle persists not because of a failure of will, but because behaviour tells us what a child does, not why.

“Beneath the behaviour lie vital clues that have the potential to unlock the potential of every child.”

41%rise in permanent exclusions over five years (DfE data, 2018)
1.4mCAMHS referrals in 2022, many addressable earlier
89%of schools report violent behaviour has significantly increased (NASUWT, 2023)

Our conviction, supported by research with Birmingham City University and Nottingham Trent University, is that a significant proportion of these figures represent needs that could have been identified and addressed earlier. That is where EMspace works.

Free research report

Beneath the Behaviour (2025)

A 41-page report on what drives challenging behaviour in schools, and what school-based professionals can do about it. Written for headteachers, SENCOs and pastoral leads. Free to download, no form to fill in.

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What EMspace is built on

25 years of practice, a West Midlands track record

Rob Aymer has worked directly with children and young people for more than 25 years. Between founding EMspace in 2016 and relocating to the East Midlands, EMspace worked with seven primary and secondary schools in the West Midlands. We are now building new partnerships with schools in Derby, Nottingham and the wider East Midlands.

25+years working directly with children and young people
7schools EMspace worked with in the West Midlands, 2016–2026
12weeks is the average length of a Journey, agreed at the start

“Every pupil who has been referred to EMspace has wanted to attend the regular sessions and has given positive feedback themselves. Both practitioners have worked hard to engage with parents as well, which has been most useful. I would recommend the service.”

Secondary school, West MidlandsWorked with EMspace for eight years
Photo of Rob: a relaxed, well-lit head-and-shoulders shot
Rob Aymer, founder of EMspace

About EMspace

25 years working with children, schools and families

EMspace was founded by Robert Aymer, drawing on more than 25 years of direct experience working with children and young people in primary and secondary schools. Every resource, tool and framework we produce comes from that lived practice, not a training manual.

The service is grounded in the CASEL Social and Emotional Learning framework and informed by original research conducted in partnership with Birmingham City University and Nottingham Trent University.

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Ready to find out more?

Whether you want to refer a young person, explore the Resource Bank, or just have an initial conversation, we are here. We reply within two working days.

Mentoring referral

Ready to refer a young person? We will respond within two working days.

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Resource Bank

Explore free SEMH and SEL resources, or upgrade to full Investor access.

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General enquiry

Not sure where to start? We are happy to have an initial conversation.

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